Won't You Be My Neighbor?

Umbra on co-housing 5

Dear Umbra,

How does one begin to gather a group of people to live in a modern city commune? My dream is to own in common an energy-efficient and sustainable house or apartment building inhabited by 10 or so people who are neighbors but also share the duties of the house (cooking, laundry, gardening), much like an extended family. I think this setup would be far superior to the current situation, where my spouse and I live in a large apartment building completely isolated from our neighbors, and I suspect there are other people living in relative isolation who have similar eco-ideals.

Jessica Gauthier
Rocky Hill, Conn.

Dearest Jessica,

All's dwell that ends dwell.

Photo: iStockphoto.

Great idea, and luckily you're not the first to have it. The contemporary umbrella term for that which you seek is an "intentional community," and there are websites, magazines, and enthusiastic experienced persons at the ready to offer advice. An intentional community is basically what you describe: people who decide to live near one another for reasons of common interest. An IC could range from a '60s-style commune complete with income sharing and elaborate rules for every circumstance (see Virginia's Twin Oaks ) to a cooperatively owned urban apartment building in which members may have little contact.

As I read your letter, the IC subcategory that came to mind was co-housing. Co-housing is an intentional neighborhood that balances common spaces, shared governance, and privacy. Co-housing families/people generally dwell in private spaces and share a few public spaces, all within the same apartment building or small custom-designed neighborhood. Public spaces typically include a large group kitchen for shared meals, laundry facilities, children's play areas, gardens, patios -- you get the idea. People buy into the co-housing group, and when they do they get their own house or apartment, and join whatever group process exists in the community. Usually the residents make team decisions about the public spaces, and the financial arrangements apparently are often similar to buying a condominium.

I know a few folks who live in or wish to live in co-housing. Some have been involved from the inception of the co-housing idea, found others to join, worked with the group to design and build their ideal homes, and are now living in them. Others have joined existing communities, or are looking for an existing building in which to have a notion of community quite similar to yours. Seems to me that you should read up a bit , then poke around on other sites if your interest is further piqued (here's a nice guide to getting started). Doing something like this well is a big job, but the rewards seem to be equally big. Remarkably, in my brief look through the sites, I didn't see any co-housing in Connecticut. There's your chance to be a pioneer.

Chummily,
Umbra

 

Yours is to wonder why, hers is to answer (or try). Send your green-living questions to Umbra.

Umbra Fisk is Grist Research Associate II, Hardcover and Periodicals Unit, floors 2B-4B.

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  1. Bytesmiths Posted 6:21 am
    12 Dec 2005

    Invaluable Reference!Anyone who is considering intentional community should run, not walk, and get the book Creating a Life Together, by Diana Leafe Christian.
    Diana, editor for a decade of Communities Magazine (itself a great resource), notes that only about 10% of such projects succeed, and thoroughly covers the pitfalls and pleasures of starting an intentional community.
  2. k8tedid Posted 8:35 am
    12 Dec 2005

    well I'll beMy boyfriend and I are in the process of moving out of where we are and into our 'own' space. We would love to be in a place where we could not only know our neighbors, but like them and enjoy being around them, which for us, deep down, means keeping our footprint light. The thing that really caught my eye about this letter was the location, we are doing all of this is in Hartford, CT....
  3. solea Posted 11:17 am
    12 Dec 2005

    go visitingMy suggestion if you are interested in doing co-housing or community: visit http://www.ic.org find some interesting looking communities who are doing what you want, and go visit. Most are open to visitors and interns, and it is an invaluable resource to be there, see how others do it day by day, and talk to anyone you can at the community. Try to learn from others mistakes and strengths. And read Diana Leafe Christian's book!
  4. davewann Posted 7:05 am
    13 Dec 2005

    neighborhoods on purposeI had the great pleasure in the past few years of compiling stories about cohousing for a newly-released anthology titled REINVENTING COMMUNITY, written and photographed by people who live there. Stories highlight everyday life in cohousing culture, which tends to be remarkably

    similar throughout North America.
    Authors tell stories about implementing sustainable technologies and behaviors (solar, carsharing, reduced consumption, community gardens, green architecture, etc.); designing neighborhood decision-making that honors diverse opinions and strives for the greatest satisfaction for as many neighbors as possible; creating a social network of support, security, stability, and trust; and having a lot of fun, too.
    In all, 50 stories and many photos of life in 40 or more different communities -- check it out.
    Dave Wann, editor, and coauthor of AFFLUENZA and SUPERBIA! 31 Ways to Create Sustainable Neighborhoods.

  5. fholson Posted 2:59 am
    19 Dec 2005

    Cohousing and other IC'sI read Umbra's article after it was pointed out on the Cohousing-L email based discussion  ( http://cohousing.org/cohousing-L ) .  Cohousing-L is an active discussion that can be useful to newcomers to the idea, people trying to develop cohousing and those living in cohousing.  It has over 600 folks - some in each of these categories.  It's had over 22,000 messages in the last 13 years.  Check us out.
    Another resource that deserves highlighting because they they are so useful is the database(s) of communities.  They can be found via

    the http://cohousing.org and http://ic.org

    (Currently the cohousing database

    is a different presentation of a subset of the

    database but will be becoming a separate database.)  They include such information as

    loacaion, name, contact, profile etc.
    A couple quibbles with the article...

    Cohousing is now generally spelled without a dash.
    Umbra described residential intentional community.

    In many ways this form is most desireable but

    it is also the most difficult to create.

    There are many more cohousing wannabes than there are people who have succeeded in living in cohousing.
    There are other forms some of which I describe as "commuter communities" ; where people intentionally relate to others including communicating and organizing events and

    travel some moderate distance to participate.

    Of course the net can be very helpful to such communities.  See the 1993 book:

    Creating Community Anywhere (available at ic.org)
    Fred,  list manager of Cohousing-L
    Fred

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